Alcohol.

When a guy says "let's hang out" the first thing that comes to a Nigerian girl's mind is cinema, cool joints to drink and connect with friends, shopping mall, beach, swimming pool, resorts,
clubs,... literally some-place nice she can take pictures for IG or Facebook and eat fish. Com'on don't tell me i'm wrong on this one.

I went on a date with this Warri guy and he kept urging me to take alcohol "nor fall my hand my friends de look" when the bar man brought Stout to our table. Wait o! did i mention it was Big Stout?. I just smiled and insisted on smirnoff. Na wetin ur body fit carry u go take, dem nor go use police catch u. I cared less if he called me 'smallie'. Guys should understand ladies aint shacks. We are in no competition with you guys. and drinking aint no way of defining "exposure." We don't take much alcohol all for the sake of hang-out. I club not for the sake of getting high but to 'shake body' that doesn't mean i will skip booze for can-coke. I remember my wommie in Uniben Teejay teasing me about my detest for wine. "You be bush geh o"she always point out. Well the only drink i know so far is Orijin, Smirnoff and Snapp.... Chapman join thats how far i can go.. Some gehs de drink sha. Some don't even take beer but wine. Classy but na your moni kill am.

I still feel if you wanna hang out with a girl for a start ask her where she'll like to be or what she have in mind other than beer palor. weda na Cool breeze, Cubana, Sheraton... na still beer palor. Because Candy Crush will be the order of the day most especially when you are boring or when you pack friends along and all you guys talk about is football. You don cast be dat.