I hear same advise over and over again "nor pack all your eggs inside one basket". People are too focus on receiving love than giving out love. Some password their phone, some sleep with phones hidden in their inner shorts, while others go through phones when no one is watching. All this na serious headache.
Relationships, dating and commitment in all is a great learning process. We make mistakes and then we learn from these mistakes. As we grow older we learn something new everyday. We love, we get upset and heart broken, time passes on, our hearts healed and then we love more and this time better. Indeed a great learning experience.
There is always a possibility that a person can get attracted to one another. It's human nature. It's not wrong. But when you're in a commitment should discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and it's okay. As long as you don't nurse the feeling and do something about it. Border line between cheating and faithfulness. Recognise the reality that you already have the person that can give you more than you can get from the 'cheap' thrill of attraction.
Hold unto any genuine person you find. This generation has people driven by ego, money ans status. As a result, good souls are ruined daily. Keep your head up and be conscious of the energy you give out and connect with.
We all try to be extremely careful with who we love and we focus hard on hiding our feelings so our emotions don't get the best of us. Jealousy, Lies, Mistrust... these things eat deep into relationship regardless how well you know each other.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/200809/is-chatting-cheating
Enough with the preaching let me try and be real here. Most of us are guilty( me inclusive). Fear of the unknown makes us wonder if we are wasting time with who we dating. Let's try and unmask our feeling and be more true to ourselves. Communication is the key.
Dope, thanks for this piece
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DeleteAbout the question, it depend on who the woman is and how she trusts her husband
ReplyDeleteVery true. Understanding each other matters a whole lot.
DeleteAbout the question, emmm, it depends on the situation as at then. Some things should just be avoided despite the trust.
ReplyDeleteI shouldnt spend the night at my boo's best friend's place for a lame excuse even if she "says" she trusts me. Should be last resort.
Yea i go with you. According to my popsi "Provision shop is better than kiosk"
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